151. Ask Tori: Buying a Car, Balance Transfers, and Choosing the Best Credit Cards

Primary Topic

This episode focuses on navigating significant financial decisions such as purchasing a car, managing balance transfers, and selecting the best credit cards.

Episode Summary

Tori Dunlap hosts a Q&A session addressing listener queries on financial decisions. The episode covers negotiating salaries, buying cars, managing balance transfers, and choosing the right credit cards. Tori emphasizes the importance of financial awareness and advocating for oneself in salary discussions, as demonstrated by a listener's successful negotiation. She provides detailed advice on whether to buy or lease cars, highlighting the long-term financial benefits of buying. The discussion on balance transfers warns against viewing them as a temporary fix without addressing underlying spending issues. Tori also advises a college student on credit card selection, emphasizing the importance of building a good credit score early.

Main Takeaways

  1. Advocacy in salary negotiations can lead to substantial increases.
  2. Buying a car often proves more financially sound than leasing in the long term.
  3. Regular balance transfers without addressing spending habits can lead to financial pitfalls.
  4. Early and smart credit card choices can set a strong foundation for financial health.
  5. Addressing underlying emotional spending is crucial for financial stability.

Episode Chapters

1: Introduction

Tori introduces the episode's theme and outlines the topics covered. She stresses the importance of financial literacy and empowerment. Tori Dunlap: "I fight the patriarchy by making you rich."

2: Buying a Car

Tori explains the pros and cons of buying versus leasing a car, advocating for buying as the more economical long-term choice. Tori Dunlap: "Leasing a car might be better if you're buying a car very temporarily. But for the vast majority of people, leasing ends up costing you more money."

3: Balance Transfers

The discussion highlights the potential traps of balance transfers, suggesting that without a plan, they can perpetuate debt issues. Tori Dunlap: "Paying nothing is way better than paying 25% interest, but we need to get to the root of the problem."

4: Choosing the Right Credit Cards

Tori offers advice to a student on choosing a secondary credit card, emphasizing the importance of a card that helps build a credit history. Tori Dunlap: "A good everyday cashback card is perfect. That's exactly what I did."

Actionable Advice

  1. Negotiate Salary: Always advocate for a fair salary based on accurate, up-to-date information.
  2. Car Buying Tips: Opt for certified pre-owned vehicles for better value and reliability.
  3. Balance Transfer Caution: Use balance transfers judiciously and plan to pay off the debt before the interest-free period ends.
  4. Credit Building: Start building credit early with a student credit card, keeping utilization below 30%.
  5. Financial Self-Awareness: Regularly assess and address emotional spending to improve financial health.

About This Episode

We’re back with another “Ask Tori” Financial Feminist episode! Today Tori’s answering voicemail questions from the Financial Feminist community — including questions about leasing or buying a car, balance transfers, and choosing the best credit cards. From navigating through the emotional trauma of spending versus saving, to breaking the cycle of constantly transferring debt, Tori addresses it all with her signature blend of financial wisdom and candid advice — tune in!

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Tori Dunlap

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Welcome back to the show. Really excited to see you. If you're an oldie but a goodie, welcome back if you're new. Hi, I'm Tori. I am a money expert.

I'm a New York Times bestselling author. I fight the patriarchy by making you rich. You know, the housekeeping things. I don't need to say it. You can like subscribe, you can share with your friends, you know, all of that.

We are going to do our probably once a quarter quarterly, like ask Tory, which is where I take a lot of your voicemails. You can send your own voicemails in down below, but we have a ton of questions today and we're just going to get right into it with our first voicemail, which I believe is a win. About salary from Katie. Hi, Tori. I found you not too long ago and just wanted to say thank you.

Katie

I recently got a promotion and my boss, who is a wonderful man, was telling me what he was thinking for my salary. And then he gave me some reasoning behind it and the salary was actually so large my jaw dropped. But as I was listening to his reasoning, I realized that he was working off of some outdated facts. And so I corrected him. He said, oh, and said he'd get back to me in a couple days because I did change things.

And my salary increase went from about $25,000 to about $40,000 for that pay bump. And that was very significant. And it's not something I would have dreamed of speaking up about had not listen to you. So thank you very much. You know, just a cool 25k promotion.

Tori Dunlap

No, just kidding. It's actually 40. Katie, congratulations. That's amazing. I'm really glad that we were able to play a small part in that.

But I love that you advocated for yourself. And something that I think is so important to highlight from her story is that a lot of people, if it's more than they expect, they would have just been like, oh, my God, great. Yeah, sure, that sounds great. But it wasn't entirely accurate and you were deserving of more money. So I love that you actually said, like, no, that's not the, that's not the facts.

Let's, let's get this together. So that's a great tip for negotiation is like, even if the number is way bigger than you expected, but it's still not reflective of your entire experience or of the whole picture. There's no reason to accept without asking for more. So I love that. Congratulations, Katie.

That's a massive jump. And a pretty life changing amount of money, like going from your salary to an additional twenty five k to an additional, like almost doubling of that. So you quadrupled your salary. If I'm doing that math right, it might be even more than that. But that's absolutely incredible.

Buy yourself something nice, celebrate in some way, and then with any money, you can save the rest. Build a nice little nest egg. You can hit your hundred k in about 2 seconds with that. So congratulations. I'm really excited for you.

And if you are out there and you want a story like Katie's, we will drop some negotiation episodes in the show description of where you can go next to learn how to negotiate. I would love for us to get 60,000 more voicemails exactly like hers. So congrats to Katie, and yeah, cheers to all of us getting paid what we're worth. Okay, let's take our first question. Hey, Tori, thanks so much for all.

You'Ve taught me through your book and podcast. It's curious when you've set your leisure priorities, you know, when you pick those three categories, but you still find yourself feeling guilty when you spend money, especially a lot of money on those areas. Do you have any advice for how. To move through the guilt or the. Feelings of I shouldn't be spending on.

This, even though the shouldn't is internalized? Yes. Thanks so much. Bye. Okay, this one's super common, which is I have told myself that I can unabashedly spend in these three areas, which is the value category concept from my book and the show.

Tori Dunlap

And then when I actually do try to spend the money, I feel guilty. This is not about spending at all. This is not really an issue about spending. This is emotional financial trauma. Like, truly, that's what it is.

I don't know you, I don't know your story, but if I had to guess, you likely grew up either living in an extremely frugal household or in a household that didn't have a lot of money. So any sort of spending feels extremely, like, kind of ridiculous. Like, any sort of spending feels like you should be saving the money instead, and that you should feel guilt and shame. The other version of this is you might have grown up in a household where actually money just grew on trees. Not like, literally, but that was the feeling of just, we're spending money all of the time.

And so now you have this opposite effect where you're so scared of making those same financial decisions that you don't want to spend money at all. So I think you'd said you had read the book, which I so love and appreciate. I would go back to the first chapter. If you haven't done those journal prompts around emotional spending and around specifically, like, what is your financial trauma? What are the narratives you're believing about money?

I would delve in and do those. We also have a version of the podcast that has a similar exercise around your first money memory. We'll link that down below. But really, it's not about, like, I can't give you a spending solve at this point because you are spending money, which I love, and it sounds like you're spending money on things that you actually love, which. Check, check.

But you're feeling guilty about it anyway, which tells me that it's a. It's an issue of the guilt and the shame that you might feel about money that is deeply harbored before you even spent it, right? So starting to excavate that is really, really important. It's really difficult work, but it's really necessary work. We've spoken many times about how all of the actionable stuff is important, right?

Assigning those value categories. Great. Learning how to pay off debt. Great. Learning what an IRA is and how to open one, opening up the high yield sale.

All of these are great, but none of these can really happen unless you start understanding your own financial trauma and your own narratives. You're believing about money in terms of a very actionable exercise I can give you beyond just, like, doing some emotional digging and doing that journaling. Anytime you do have this feeling, especially before you're about to buy something or after you've bought something, rather than taking the shame that you already feel and then feeling more shame that you feel ashamed, just sit of with it. Just sit there and ask yourself, huh, why am I feeling this way? And you notice I said that very neutrally.

I'm not saying, like, oh, you fucking piece of shit, we've done this again. Or thinking, you know, that I need to, again feel more shame about my shame. You're just an anthropologist in your own life. You're going, oh, interesting. Okay, well, why do I feel that way?

Just ask yourself why? Why am I feeling this way? Or what's going on in my brain and my body? Where am I feeling tension? Where am I feeling anxiety?

Why do I feel like I can't purchase this thing? That's. That's the question. Why? Why do I feel like I can't.

I can't buy this thing? And then maybe ask yourself, do I really want this thing? Did I think about it before? Did I. Is this an emotional purchase?

Is this an impulse purchase? Or is this something I've planned for? And again, we're not judging ourself. We're not asking these questions in order to make a certain decision immediately. We're just asking ourselves to sit in the discomfort for a bit and start to understand maybe a little bit more about why we feel that guilt or that shame about that purchase.

Or why we feel anxiety before we make the purchase. I've said this before, but I think it's so important. I will never tell you, you can't spend money. It's just not a thing. That's not sustainable, that's not fun.

That's not who I am as a finance expert, nor as a person. And I think spending money is so crucial and really important, and we work hard so that not only can we save, but we can also spend money on things we really love. And if your financial trauma or the narratives you're believing about money are keeping you from being able to enjoy your hard earned money, like, that's no fun, that's. That's not helpful, that's not building a enjoyable life. So just starting to sit in it and ask yourself, like, why do I feel guilty when I spend money?

What's going on? And then if you don't have an answer, keep asking why until you get an answer, or at least until you get a little bit more clarity. And please do this without judgment, without shame, without making yourself feel worse. Just keep it really neutral and sit in that discomfort and start to analyze what's going on. And that should hopefully be helpful.

And if you still have questions after you try those, come back. We'll talk again. Okay, let's take our next question about someone intimidated with buying a car. Girl. Same.

Buying a car is. Well, I'm sure you'll talk about it. Here we go. Hi, Tori. First off, thank you so much for your podcast.

It has helped me in more than one way, and I'm starting to finally feel financially stable. I have a high yield savings account and I've paid off all my debt. But the next thing that I'm kind of trying to focus on is buying a car. It'll be my first car that I bought myself. My last one was a hand me down, and I am so intimidated by the process.

I feel like I'm just getting into a potential situation of less financial stability. Cars are so expensive, and I'd love some advice on whether leasing or buying is a good option. If you are trying not to spend as much every month, is it worth it? Yeah, I would just love some direction and what your thoughts are on the car buying process. Thanks again.

Tori Dunlap

I will always say as a finance expert, when I have to look things up, too. Buying versus leasing a car is one of those things that I have been told by my family and about society, if there's a one right decision and one wrong decision. And I wanted to make sure that I actually believe that, too. So I literally googled, like, buying versus leasing a car to make sure that I had my facts straight before I take this to you. Okay, so one car buying, you're exactly right, is kind of an intimidating process, especially if you've never done it before.

It's very easy to just believe, oh, my gosh, everybody's trying to get me and everybody this incredibly big purchase I'm about to make. Like, I just don't know how to go about it. And I felt that way when I bought my first car when I was 22. I was lucky to have my parents with me who had done this many, many times before. If you have somebody in your life, this is the actual.

This is the time where I'm like, ask for help. Great. If you have somebody in your life, and I will say, and I hate that I have to say this, but the world is sexist. If you, as a woman, have somebody in your life, especially a man who has purchased a car before and feels comfortable negotiating, bring him with you, whether that's your brother or your partner or your dad, like, if you do have somebody in your life, like, they will probably be able to get you a better deal. Not because you can't negotiate, but because this is a sexist world, and people are more likely to give men a better deal than they are women.

And we're going to use it to our advantage to make sure we don't overpay for this car. So that's the first thing. If you do have somebody in your life who's done this before and who you feel comfortable doing this process with, ask for help. Bring them with you. If you don't or even want to tackle this alone.

Great. Here's a couple of things you should know. Any car that you're going to buy, the sticker price is not the real price. It's kind of like going to a garage sale. And that $10, like, limited edition, it's a 1975 record.

But what is that doing at a garage sale? I don't know. The Beatles record? Like it? The $10 is not the real price.

Like it is Obo or best offer. You never, ever, ever should pay the sticker price on a car, especially like a certified, pre owned used car. Now, whether we should buy or lease a car, I'm just going to give it to you. What is the best version? We don't want to lease that car because you don't actually own the car.

When you lease it, you basically pay. It's almost like you pay rent, which is, you know that I love paying rent, and that's okay. But a car is much different than a house. And in the end, leasing the car, it almost costs you more than the equivalent loan to buy the car outright because you're paying for this car at the same time while it's rapidly depreciating. So that's one thing to keep in mind, is, like, you might actually pay more money if you're leasing the car and the payments are going to go on forever, right.

If you can find a car that is a good quality model with not a lot of miles on it that you can pay for. Again, I'm a big fan of certified pre owned cars, which means that they're not brand new cars, but they are maybe like a couple years old, and they don't have a lot of miles on them, and they've been checked, and they're like. They're basically. They're like. Like new cars.

That's a great way to go. My parents always told me, like, the magic three are things you want to look for. These are, like, three kinds of really dependable cars. Toyotas, Hondas, Subarus. Those are, like, the three cars you look for.

I bought a Toyota rav four in 2016. It was a 2014 certified pre owned. It was. I think the total cost of the car was about $22,000. I think they wanted 25.

We negotiated them down to 22. And then I took out a loan on that car, and I paid off that loan, which helped me boost my credit. And yes, it was more expensive than leasing the car, but after four years, I ended up owning that car outright. And it's a really good car. We're at ten years now.

Actually, it's 2024. I'm at. That car has been alive for ten years, and it's still serving me really well. It's a dependable car. I love it.

I don't plan on getting rid of it anytime soon, and now I outrightly own it. So leasing a car might be better if, you know, you're buying a car very temporarily. But for the vast majority of people, leasing ends up costing you more money. It doesn't really make financial sense in the long run. And again, you don't own it at the end of the day.

And especially if this is a car that you think you're going to have for a very long time, it's advantageous, probably to buy the car, not lease it. I will say, too, again, we just mentioned this, but do not pay sticker price for the car and make sure you walk in knowing not only your budget, but what the type of car you're looking at should cost. You can look, you know, Kelley Blue book, you can do some online research. Again, if I was walking in to buy a Toyota, and specifically I was looking for some sort of like smaller suv, like a Rav four, I knew about how much I should be paying for that car. And I saw that car, liked it, went home and did research and came back to buy the car.

That's something that I really would recommend is you can take a little bit of time to, you know, check out the car, definitely test drive it. Oh my God, definitely test drive it. Make sure you like it, make sure, you know, you are understanding the total cost, then maybe go home, sleep on it, get some research. If it still looks good, then let's go back and negotiate. Also, the negotiation process might take you a couple hours.

I remember this, I was probably twelve or 13. My parents spent probably 4 hours negotiating a car. Now you don't have to do that, but they did. That's classic Dunlap behavior. And they negotiated a lot of things on top.

They actually negotiated to get a certain number of free oil changes at the dealership. They negotiated for a couple other things. So even if the price of the car won't come down, you might be able to negotiate some other things. When you do take out a loan on this car, if you do choose to buy it, there's a couple of places you can take out this loan. The most obvious is a bank or a credit union.

I had actually gotten pre approved for a certain loan amount at my credit union. But then when I went to the dealership and was actually, you know, seriously talking about purchasing the car, that the Toyota dealership had actually lower interest rates on the total cost of the car. So as opposed to, I think it was like a three or 4% interest rate. And again, I know things are different. This was 2016, it was a three or 4% interest rate at the credit union.

I think it was like less than 2% at the Toyota dealership. So I went with the Toyota dealership. So that's the other thing is you can not only shop the price of the car, but you can also shop interest rates. I will be honest too, I haven't bought a car in a long time. Car buying after the pandemic is kind of, it's fucking crazy.

It feels like used cars are like almost more valuable and more expensive sometimes than new cars. The reason I do advise, if you can define one of those like certified pre owned cars is because the moment you drive this is, you know, the infamous thing, but the moment you drive a new car off a lot, it's depreciated. And if you're financially able to buy a new car and you want to, and great. I think for you, especially if you're having this like buy versus lease conversation. If it was me, I would be purchasing the car, I would be taking out a loan to purchase the car, and I would be finding one of those certified pre owned models and I definitely negotiate it and bring somebody along with me.

If I felt like I had somebody in my life who could help advocate for me or even just sit there and look intimidating, that's the other great thing. And ultimately, just like with everything, you know, I'm getting a 45 2nd voicemail. I don't know you, I don't know your life. Personal finance is personal. I can give you, you know, the best advice I can based on the info I have, but also, what would I do?

So hopefully that's helpful. Have fun buying your new car.

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Tori Dunlap

Okay, let's talk about balance transfers. Hi, Tori. Meg here from Chicago. Question when you have a credit card and it's a 0% interest, but the 0% time is about to end, instead of the apr going up to, like, 25%, is it better to do a balance transfer so you can start over at another 0%? Because I feel like the fee for that would be less than paying 25% on the balance of the other card.

Wondering because I've done this several times and just want to know if I'm making a mistake. Thank you. Bye bye. Okay. Hello, Meg from Chicago.

Tori Dunlap

I love how you started this voicemail. You're like, Meg, I'm from Chicago. Here we go. I appreciate the direct, we're going direct into our question. Okay.

Um, again, I've talked to you or listened to you talk for 50, 50 seconds, but if I have to psychoanalyze you, you've said you've done this a couple times, which makes me nervous. This tells me that either, if I'm assuming most positive intent, right, that you're just having a financially rough time, and that's not your own fault, that's not anything that you're doing. Maybe you don't make enough money to afford your bills. And that's, again, where policy change needs to come in to better support you. The fact that this keeps happening just makes me really nervous.

So if that is what's going on in your life, I'm really sorry. I hope that we're here to help with the things you can control. If this is happening because you are not in control of your own spending, we need to get to the root of the problem, which is not do I do a balance transfer? But is why does this keep happening over and over and over again? If you are spending money that you do not have on a credit card and this is beyond your basic necessities and you not being able to afford those basic necessities, we need to ask ourselves, why.

Yeah, why is this happening over and over and over again? And what can we do about it? When it comes to balance transfers, you are right in the math. Paying nothing is way better than paying 25% interest. You're right.

But because you've told me you've done this before and it sounds like multiple times, you're like, I've done this before. It keeps happening. It just makes me nervous. It tells me that something else emotional is going on where either we're not looking at our spending, we are not working to manage this. And this is actually the number one thing I see with balance transfer transfers is, let me define it simply, very quick.

A balance transfer is exactly what it sounds like where let's say I have $5,000 on a credit card that I have not paid off. It is carried month over month, and rather than paying the interest from that credit card on that $5,000, I'm going to transfer it to another credit card that has 0% interest for a certain period of time. I might take that $5,000 from a credit card that has 25% interest and move it to a credit card that has 0% interest for, let's say, six months. But this is what happens with most people. And if I had to diagnose you just based on that, it sounds like this is what's happened with you, is that people do that balance transfer is almost like a get out of jail free card.

They're just like, well, I don't want to pay the interest. Which you're right, I don't want to pay that interest either. That's financially smart. And they move the money to that 0% card for six months. But then five and a half months later, nothing has changed in their life.

They did not create a plan when they were making that balance transfer. They did not set expectations with themselves. They did not work to pay that balance off. So suddenly they're going, well, I just bought myself six months more of time, but I didn't chip away at my debt at all, or I didn't create a plan to be able to manage this money better in order for this to not happen again. And you just get in this cycle, which is just, you transfer it again and maybe it's twelve months now and okay, that bought me a year.

But nothing is changing about your financial habits in that year. And there was no plan. That was just the, that was just the quick fix. It was the staples that was easy button and just like trying to move on from there. And I have a section in my book that talks about how dangerous this is.

Because if you're making any sort of financial decision, especially one out of desperation or out of panic, and you have no plan to back it up, and you're not actually being real with yourself about how your habits or your life needs to change during that period of time, this cycle will continue. So you're asking, is this the right thing to do? The math says yes, but there's something else going on here. There's something else going on here. And again, if I don't know you, I don't know your life, if this is.

I'm not trying to shame you, if this is a. I don't make enough money and I'm really trying. I get that. That's not on you. That's systemic oppression.

That's all of the other stuff. But if this is a honest. If this is the other version, I need you to take an honest look at how are my spending habits sabotaging my life? How is my lack of planning and my lack of honestly getting my shit together causing this to continue to happen? These tools are at our disposal because credit card companies know that most people who do a balance transfer have not created a plan together to actually pay that debt off or to actually change their spending habits in the meantime, so they know they can make money off of them later.

Because usually the cards that do have the balance transfer have an even higher interest rate when that 0% is over. So it's not 25% interest now, it's 30% interest or 28%. So I just say, with all the love in the world, if this is an issue where you're just trying to figure your financial shit out because you don't make enough money and because you're actually financially struggling, I'm really sorry, it fucking sucks. And on the flip side, if this is a, you know, I'm spending money pretty mindlessly, or at least there's some things that I can control about this to work to get myself out of the situation, great. I am with you every step of the way, I really encourage you to do some thinking and some actual planning before you make another decision that is, well, I'm just going to put this off until six months later.

I just never want to sound, especially on these, like, phone calls. You can keep this in. I never want to sound like Dave Ramsey. I just had a fun little aside with kristen of, like, am I. Does this sound shitty?

Does this sound like I'm being mean? But, like, at the end of the day, like, that's the. That's the financial advice is if it's not a literal paycheck to paycheck thing and it is just a. I don't want to think about it. I don't know what I'm doing.

And you just put it off till later? Like, no, we got to get honest with ourselves and we got to make a change. So, yeah, here to guide you and hopefully give you some resources to be able to make that change. We'll drop some. I mean, there's.

There's tons of episodes on the show about how to mine mind, spend fully, how to spend mindfully, how to make sure that, you know, you are creating a plan, creating goals that you can actually achieve and. Yeah, I appreciate your question. All right, let's take our last voicemail about credit cards. Hi, Tori. I am currently a student in college, and I'm looking to build my credit.

Ava

I currently have a credit card that I've had for a year. It's the discover student card, and I want to get another credit card so that I don't have to use over 30% of my credit line. And right now, my credit score is about, like, around 700. Like, a little like, more than 700. And I am looking into other cards, and I don't really know which ones to go for.

And I am not, like, pre approved for anything because technically I'm still not verified as, like, a good borrower yet because the longevity of my account isn't that great. So I'm curious what you would recommend or if there's any, like, I don't want to say credit cards that are shooins, because I know that's not really a thing, but I'm curious if there's any that you would recommend like that. Okay, thanks. Ava, you are me ten years ago, like, literally almost to a t, you're like, I'm in college. And I'm like, check.

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And you're like, my first card was the discover it card. And I'm like, check. And you're like, I want another card, but I need to know which one I can apply for. Check. My credit score is 700.

Check. Like, literally you're that. I just got a call from the past. Hello, past. Tory, how are you doing?

Break up with him. Okay. I love that you're asking this question. If I was you, and I was you, I would just get a cash back card that is good for everyday purchases. One that gives you something like one and a half percent cash back on everything.

This is a good secondary card. It's a good everyday card. And anybody listening, even if you're not a student, if you're in your, like, early twenties and you just need a new credit card that just has good points for everything and is not. There's no annual fee, there's no craziness. This is the kind of card you want.

We have linked down in the show notes, our list of recommended credit cards, including a card like this. Um, so I would check that out, but that's a good second card. Past, like your starter kind of. I'm saying this as least condescendingly as possible because this is me and this is everybody. Like, past the training wheels card.

This is like the first big girl bike, you know, a good everyday cashback card, especially with somebody with, you know, 700. 700 credit score is a great card card as your secondary card. I love that you're even thinking about how do I boost my credit score? How do I not use 100% of my credit line? This was me as well.

And yeah, I think that is typically a card that will accept you. If it doesn't, if you apply for it and you don't get accepted, your credit score isn't high enough. Just keep using your discover card for a while, maybe for three more months after you receive that notice that you didn't qualify. And then maybe start looking at other cards that are a similar card to your discover card. If you do get a increase in your credit score in the next three to six months, could be a perfect time to apply for that card.

If, you know, you feel like you have better credit, you're proving that you can be responsible with your credit card. So, yeah, in terms of your next card to get good cash back, everyday card is. Is perfect. That's exactly what I did. It's still a card I have.

It's a card that I don't use a lot anymore, but it's one of my, like, backup credit cards should something happen. And, yeah, it's just. It's a good general card because there's no annual fee and it's just going to give you cash back on anything you put on that card. Okay team, thank you so much for all of your questions. I love hearing from you.

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